You should take your cues from your partner, not from documentaries or this sub, on whether your partner's views and actions are manipulative, brainwashy and damaging. Being a doctor means you sacrifice for others, and your family and spouse sacrifices while standing in the shadows of your career. You would be able to force her to confront the facts without feeling threatened. I feel I have given a lot of myself and in the process have lost myself and my identity. The Church encourages you to use dating as an opportunity to show your respect not just for others, but for yourself. This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now.
Of course it is impossible Anyways, I am sorry to go on and on. He sees all families being able to stay together. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her. I have been known to share though because it gets on my nerves when my friends complain to me about how much money we are making Recently by some pure act of coincidence my hubby ended up with a day off on Labor day. I am married to an interventional cardiologist.
Note, her mind and TSCC were married first. Log in or sign up in seconds. Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. That being sais, just be honest. If after all these suggestions you're thinking "в But I really like her. Once you both die, you will not be married in the afterlife and she will get assigned to be the polygamous wife of someone else. Not leaving 5 minutes early to drop you off - 15 minutes could get problematic, but five?. We moved city over 6 months ago which was in the best interests of her career as well as mine.
Notify me of new posts via email. Mormons are one of the few remaining groups with healthy women. You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen. I have been married to a doctor for 29 years now and think I have felt or experienced many of the worries expressed. I find it's helpful to focus on the fact that it's the job that demands so much of him, rather than him simply opting out of time spent with us. Sometimes I seat and think how we can make this work when both of us have career aspirations I am trying to find a tenure-track position close to my husband this year, and I just keep my fingers crossed that I can do that. You are commenting using your Twitter account. He is studying to get into a residency program and I struggle to get his time. She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder.