Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. She hasn't submitted the paperwork yet but I have no doubt that she will do this eventually. The point is that he should ASK her if this is true for her.
It's been tough to always move and find a new job, friends etc I agree a support system is needed. It all depends on the girl. For reference we're both in our mids. Don't fall in love with a doctor. They believe that the body is a temple that needs to be worshiped, and that inner beauty is more important. It'll reinforce the wisdom of running from this disaster in the making.
Pretty alarming how unsophisticated so many presumably well-educated people's expectations are of marriage. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. Doctors are, for the most part, extremely responsible and determined. I don't think I could let that happen. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual.
If you are not old enough to consider marriage, you should be careful about having a serious, exclusive relationship. Iam 24, my bf going to move to Troy NY for his master he ask me to move with him, I want to but Iam afraid we will never get married. It can burn, and it can burn you hardcore. It sounds like you unfortunately ran into this guy at the wrong point in life. If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. We have discussed marriage and kids but I dont want to live a life of lonliness I'm responding to the comment on April 11, - I posted on April 3, Sounds like you are going through my same fears and concerns. It seems like you havent had enough time to get to know him, and honestly you wont for a while. But is it the path that will make you the happiest. She suggested instead watching something that was produced by the church itself.