I know a lot of Mormons who were also not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender rolesвbut I was, as were many of my peers. I'm the overly busy person. LDSdotOrg is mostly propaganda. The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen. A stiff dick has no awareness How's a lifetime of garments and 3 hour meetings sound. Will people have feelings about your interfaith marriage. I have been reading this blog for a while now but this is the first time I have felt I needed to add my two cents in. Their marriage falls apart because they are both working way too many hours, and they lose their way in life.
I can honestly say this isn't worth it. I would show her this recent post for example: Her family will also be thinking about this and will talk to you about it when you spend time with them. She will be oh-so-grateful if you do not pressure her to discard those values. Simply tell him that you feel like your relationship is stagnating, and you'd like to talk about where it is going. Should we try to heed their counsel and marry in the Church. He will come to you. My daughter thinks it's funny that she's known her SO 4 years - not ready for marriage. And after years of this struggle, will your love for him and desire to avoid the hassle cause you to reduce your activation.
To them, everyone is either TBM, hasn't learned the truth yet, or has some kind of personal failing laziness, desire to sin, allowed themself to be deceived by satan, etc. When you mix cultural groups you increase the difficulty. Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. It would behoove you in this situation to act like a kid yourself. Break up with her. Two very simple things that require so much effort and understanding. That doesn't get better unless you humble yourself, either -- admit you might be wrong. I find that I walk on egg shells when he is home. After his mission he lost faith on everything for some reasons.
I'd just like to add that unless you're happy being with her as a full believing Mormon, don't stick around in the hopes that she'll de-convert. He sealed my husband and I on our wedding day. RUN like the wind. I feel to say, if you hear this, Amy, in time, it will all come round right. He has chosen to become a GP rather than an orthopeadic surgeon because that allows him to be home more. When my husband and I were sealed, I finally understood why my Dad had been stressing this to me my entire life. I really like this girl but, is Mormonism so toxic that I should just sever the relationship before it gets serious. Its so good to be a part of this blog. I suppose it depends on your personality. I am now 40, I have been seeing this man now my husband for 17 years.