I also remember my father a stake president telling me the night before I got married that every single couple he had counseled through marriage struggles were not reading their scriptures or praying together every night. Everyone seems to be supporting the idea that he is just too busy, but the truth is we over the internet can't judge his intent. Other lazy Mormon girls turn feminist, many thousands of them. I have been understanding of the demands of his career for many years, but I have come to realized that I'm not happy living this way. She started crying when I explained this to her. I also remember my father a stake president telling me the night before I got married that every single couple he had counseled through marriage struggles were not reading their scriptures or praying together every night. My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her. I even had someone tell me I should know better than to marry a nomo. If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for.
She asked me to read that site and write down questions. He believes in God, but also believes that God is everywhere, and therefore does not need to be worshipped in a specific place of worship with specific prayers. I married a non-member over 20 years ago. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. If your relationship has gotten very serious, your girlfriend will probably try to find agreement in your faiths. You need to do something interesting and keep her faith up. I'm keeping myself occupied with my kid, work but I wonder if my career will ever take precedence. If I were to signal him everytime I thought about him, I'd be on the phone with him almost all of my waking hours. He should tell her that he will never convert, and that if she will not be happy unless he does, the relationship should end.
At least I know that there are people who truly understand the medical life. Nothing less will do. Mormon theology is peculiar, yes, but the media frequently takes things out of context and misrepresents the religion. I know people should not get married if they can't accept each other as they are.
He left his practice of many years and started a new one this week. For reference we're both in our mids. She will be oh-so-grateful if you do not pressure her to discard those values. His hectic job aside, he is an amazing man, very loving and family oriented, which is what I have always wanted.