Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. Marriage to the wrong person is extremely difficult. It has hit me that this relationship is a double standard wherein since we are not married yet, he is not obligated to help me, yet he says once I'm done with my boards and match into residency, we will get married. I know residency is particularly bad, but what about when he finishes that. To prevent problems from developing in the marriage over in what faith the possible children should be raised. My husband and I have a much closer relationship than ever before and I just hope that another blue eyed nurse doesn't come along to distract him. I even had someone tell me I should know better than to marry a nomo. Do you think that is too draining too. I am a non-Mormon who moved to Utah for college. God and the Goddess had something more waiting for me.
God knows the big picture. Maybe you do, too. Unconditional love, excellent communication, and unwavering support. It's pretty rough waking up to drive home that early and then trying to go back to sleep again for just a little bit before getting up again for work. Wow i am in the exact same position. Welcome to TwoXChromosomes, a subreddit for both serious and silly content, and intended for women's perspectives. Good Questions to Ask Someone.
We haven't been on holiday in years first because of no money as he was studying while in worked. Just to make things worse I am from South America, he is australian and we live in Australia, no much support here Anyway good to know that I am not the only one. You and your husband are truly a team, even though things are not always equal. No one understands it, so thank you for sharing your thoughts so I know I'm not alone and not being too needy for feeling alone. But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy. Buy them a bus ticket with a note and an address.
If you are all sealed together, you will be together forever in the Celestial Kingdom. And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too. Some other times I admire myself and ask God for help. It is difficult to learn to have no expectations towards him, even though our mindset towards medicine is the same. I suppose it depends on your personality.