I'm beginning to think that it should be a monthly visit no matter what. Already answered Not a question Bad question Other. I am realizing now, after leaving my job, selling my house, moving ect…. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot. I'm sorry this was so longwinded and not really an answer to your questions. He gave me a very clear answer that this was right. She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost.
Even selfish at times. I knew a guy who joined the Mormon church because he thought it would help him date a certain Mormon girl, a girl who refused to date non-Mormons. This is starting to upset me though and I'm tired of waiting for change, so how should I approach the conversation. Take the missionary lessons, read the Book of Mormon and the Bible. I mentioned in another post that I am okay with us not seeing each other all the time. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. Thanks for pointing this stuff out. There is no way this will work out.
To me, life is all about growthвso ask yourselfвwill I grow more staying single and focusing my life on the church, or will I grow more branching out, looking at life from different perspectives, and allowing myself to see options I have not yet considered. As time has gone by I realized that the opinons of others is not important to me and oddly enough those who did not originally approve have had their hearts and minds changed by the love my husband shows me, our daughter, and the members of my family. Marrying a non-Mormon is not something you do it is something that happens. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. What do you do while they are away.
Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. Do you have a few suggestions for talking points I may want to bring up from stuff directly on LDS. If you marry him, you are committing to accepting him without the church and all that this entails. Maybe more convinced than you are. The bottom line is that you are setting yourself up for difficult times ahead. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day. But my son will be 14 then and I will feel that I've already done the work of raising a child. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. It hasn't been easy for me to create a regular social life that involves me missing a husband. Anyways, any advice on which of those times would be best since I know both have to be a sacrifice for him of some sort.