We married in early 30's. At least not until they're I reserve the right to refute any teaching that I see as harmful. My husband is finishing up residency and is never around. Very wise words when tell others to take a very cold hard look at there life. As time has gone by I realized that the opinons of others is not important to me and oddly enough those who did not originally approve have had their hearts and minds changed by the love my husband shows me, our daughter, and the members of my family.
Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him. She is going on a mission which means she is heavily invested in performing according to the cultural expectations. I would like to know if this is normal. This is my own personal opinion. The hardworking doctors won't even get the time or energy for affairs. You stop talking at all.
So there's THAT to look forward to. The importance of tithing your money. It just seems like I'm never on his mind unless I'm physically in front of him, and then he's sweet as can be.
Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon. I don't want to come off as needy or clingy but I've never dated someone in this profession before. I also know that my husband's job as a Surgeon is before us my kids and I. This has led to more arguments than ever before and I feel so alone This is all very helpful. Needless to say, my life is a little bit crazy. And, whether she knows it or not she probably does know it but is in denialshe probably sees you as her ticket out of Oldmaidsville. You will buy expensive disability insurance, malpractice insurance, and life insurance to provide a snippet of comfort for the great, unknowable future.